Adapted Therapy for Autistic Young People & their Families


I work therapeutically on Mondays and Tuesdays in central London. My approach is family focused and at least one family member has to be involved in all sessions when I work with children. I use a CBT framework, but within this framework, I use a wide range of different approaches and everything I do is adapted for neurodivergent individuals. My approach is very holistic.
 
My sessions are an hour and I write up a summary of what we did so that parents have a record of this. A lot happens in each session, and it can be hard to remember. The summaries help process what we talked about and use ideas at home and in other settings.
 
I work remotely in emergency situations and when I do parent consultations, but I do not work remotely with young people therapeutically. I think that it is easier to connect, to engage with and enjoy sessions face-to-face.

Frequently Asked Questions about Therapy with Lucy

You are a speech & language therapist. What kind of speech and language therapy do you offer?

The short answer to this question is none! I am a speech & language therapist, and this is a wonderful profession to have, but the only therapy that I offer is family focused adapted cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT), specialising in autism. This is bespoke to neurodivergent individuals and their families and the way that they process information and experience the world.

How can you do adapted CBT when you are a speech & language therapist not a psychologist?

Many different professions can train to do adapted CBT, not just psychologists, e.g., speech therapists, occupational therapists, nurses, teachers, social workers. I spent 3 years training at the Anna Freud Centre and University College London (UCL), and have a MSc in Adapted CBT specialising in supporting autistic people.

What age group do you work with therapeutically?

Research suggests that children need to be at least 7 or 8 to access CBT. I work with children from 7 up to 18 and I work with young adults (up to 25).

How do you adapt CBT for autistic people that you work with?

NICE Guidelines recommend the following:

  • Emotion recognition training. Many neurodivergent people have difficulty recognising how they feel and being able to use language to tell others.
  • Greater use of written and visual information and structured worksheets. Auditory processing is often slower, and many neurodivergent people have to work hard to filter out background sounds to focus on what someone is saying. Visual processing is a strength and supports auditory processing in sessions, which reduces stress and makes information more accessible.
  • A more cognitively concrete and structured approach. Using visuals helps make information more concrete, e.g., I make an agenda with the young person, I use rating scales, diagrams, graphs to measure anxiety.
  • Involving a parent or carer to support the implementation of the intervention, for example, involving them in therapy sessions. At least one parent is always in my therapy sessions, we work as a team.
  • Maintaining attention by offering regular breaks. Having a parent with us reduces pressure and stress, I use a lot of humour, and we always take breaks when the you person needs them. My sessions do not feel formal.
  • Incorporating the child or young person’s special interests into therapy if possible. I try to do this and to have sensory resources and activities I know that they like.

I use variations of all of the above, and bespoke adaptations to the individual I am working with. I include strategies and ideology from other approaches, e.g., Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness. I use anything that works for the person I am working with.

Do you work one to one with children and young people?

I have a family focused approach so at least one parent is always involved, but often both, I have had grandparents in sessions too, and siblings. My aim is to help everyone understand each other so that:

  • They can adapt the environment to make it more accessible and less stressful.
  • They can reduce the risk of misinterpreting and misunderstanding each other.
  • They can carry on conversations outside of therapy sessions.
  • They can help young people generalise strategies as this is very difficult for neurodivergent people.

I work with young people on their own when they are older, e.g., 18 +, if they want to have sessions on their own, or if the family is very complicated and there are reasons not to work with parents and child together, such as safeguarding concerns.

How many sessions do you offer, e.g., 6, 8?

Most therapy for people who are not neurodivergent is a certain number of sessions, which is based on research and is the optimum amount of appointments needed to achieve good outcomes. However, this is not the case for therapy with autistic people. I am very flexible. I do not have a set number of sessions in my mind as I do not know how long it will take to
build a relationship, to start to transfer what we are learning, to feel ready to reduce sessions. I do not want to work with people for longer than necessary, but I do not want to end sessions too soon, either. The number of sessions I do depends on the person and how their needs.

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I am guided by the following:

• Understanding individuals.

• Using evidence-based practice but adapting everything I do so that it works for each person as we are all different regardless of our neurotype.

• Making sessions engaging, interesting and fun to motivate and encourage young people and to reduce anxiety.

• Working in partnership with families and young people, and valuing what we all bring to the sessions.

• Helping everyone to understand neuro-differences, and to recognise that they are natural variations in human beings that should not be stigmatised.

• Working on areas that young people and families want to understand and learn how to manage.

• Helping young people, and their families, to recognise their strengths and to embrace these.

• Helping them to understand triggers for mental health difficulties that they are likely to be experiencing, reducing these and the risk of self-harm, suicidal ideation, which is common for neurodivergent people.

• Helping them to feel better about themselves, strengthening their self-esteem and self- worth so that they can be happier and enjoy life more.

• Personal experience as a neurodivergent adult, and a neurodivergent parent with a neurodivergent family.

• A strong belief in diversity, equality, inclusion, and the dismantling of old-fashioned stereotypes, which perpetuate discrimination, and bring out the worst in human beings.

Parent feedback

Lucy has helped us understand better how our son’s mind might work differently, how hard certain things are for him and how to better cope with these differences and help support him as much as we can. Even more importantly, she has helped him immensely and given him the coping strategies to better handle his day-to-day life. He is a much happier child and thanks to Lucy, he has received so much help at school because she is always there to support and give guidance to the teachers when issues do arise.

Parent feedback

Lucy is our beam of hope and our biggest help and support. Being a therapist is not just a job for her, but a calling and a passion to help support neurodiverse individuals and give them a much better quality of life. But also to make the world a more inclusive and better place where people are accepting of differences. Lucy is a real gem and we are so lucky to have her in our life.

Parent feedback therapy

The day we were introduced to Lucy was the day things started to change radically for our family. Lucy got it, she immediately understood what our needs where and hatched a plan with us for therapy that worked with us. Our son had reservations about starting therapy but by 5 minutes into our first session I knew we had found our person. Our son interacted with Lucy in such a positive way and she got him, she knew exactly what to do to get the best out of him and put him at ease. She did the same for us and admittedly I was nervous about us in a group session every week bearing out good days / bad days and everything that goes with it. What Lucy also managed to do is come up with strategies that work specifically for us as a family – nothing was one size fits all. And she empowered our son (as well as us) to embrace our situation. I looked forward to each week and miss not going. I really don’t think I’ve met anyone who genuinely cared as much for my son and our family and our wellbeing; while navigating the incredibly interesting, sometimes challenging but mostly rewarding world of neurodivergence in your family. Lucy really is a tremendously talented but also genuine human. I feel so fortunate to have gotten to work with her and for our family to have benefitted from what she gave, and continues to give us (she checks in regularly). Thank you Lucy.

Parent of a child having therapy with Lucy

Your approach of total support and kindness really sits well with my son. Thank you. 

Parent of a young person that had therapy with Lucy

If I am honest, I am not sure we could have done it without your support and guidance, I hold what you did with her in the highest of regards and I think it actually saved her life. She was in a dark place and the sessions and understanding gave her guidance and something to work towards.